Good Old Younger Days
March 11th, 2011Ephesians 5:21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
Oh, the good old younger days- when life was so much simpler and nothing was all that big of a deal- except for when someone: violated your side of the bed, took your toy, changed the channel, said something personally offensive, refused to give you what you had wanted for so long or do something your way, failed to notice and comment on your new stuff, etc. Then, boy howdy, it was time for the storm and battle of the day, with wailing, flailing, accusing, refusing, and general all out severing of relationship in the name of personal right and gratification.
It was time for this — unless— the participants in this interchange had experienced the uncompromising consequences for this kind of response from that aging ‘loved one’ wielding a reason for not acting in that way, you know, something that would actually leave a mark. Then, amazing as it may seem, those actions, reactions and attitudes that just couldn’t be controlled before were replaced with lowered volumes and even embraces (although possibly forced). This would all come by the mere realization that the ‘feared’ ones were able to hear and respond with something that demanded attention much more than merely gratifying the demands of a damaged ego.
While physical and material consequences were initially necessary for these attitude adjustments, as time passed in relationship with parents, love, honor, and respect for them personally became the adjusting element. To violate their trust and do something opposed to their principles would damage this relationship and this was feared much more than failing to get your own way.
(Ok, I know this might just be the way it should have been, not necessarily the way it was all the timeJ )
I love this passage from Ephesians making it clear that fearing and reverencing God isn’t something that takes place alone in the prayer closet. Where true honor, respect, value, and fear of our Redeemer is best represented is in giving up those childish demands of the flesh (that often persist way into adulthood) and actually submitting one to another. Reverence of Him is directly reflected in our human interaction. Where He is acknowledged as being in the room, there is a heightened awareness of his thoughts regarding our actions and where He is truly feared, adjustments will be made with love actions and words replacing those ‘natural’ responses.
It may be that certain things will not go well and there may be consequences that leave a mark on our life when self is elevated above others, but there is a much a greater influence on our attitudes and actions in a heart that is passionate about continual worship of the Holy One. Pleasing Him and demonstrating knowledge of His nature and His love is much more important than raising a ruckus about something done to us. The way those ‘old younger days’ were supposed to be, you know, where nothing was all that big of a deal, can be the here and now in the awareness of His presence that disallows any consideration of a suffered wrong. His love is most amazing when discovered and displayed in those who have claimed their life to be in Him. In sweet submission to that one we can see there is the greatest proclamation of a faith in the One we cannot see.
